Always cherish your own company

Saravanan Pari
2 min readApr 15, 2018
Solitude helps you to know more about yourself

Life is uncertain, even your shadow leaves you when it is dark. Nobody here is without friends, friends are part of life. Depending too much on anyone can give you disappointments, people change as seasons do. Always cherish your own company, it builds confidence and perseverance. As soon as we start to grow we tend to develop a feeling that some of them are ignoring us. But the reality is once we graduate from high school or college, everyone gets to be busy with their own life and their dreams. Once we get busy with our own, we get entangled from all these thoughts. We often seek for a companion during our hard times, but we fail to realize that we are the best companion for ourselves.

Imagine yourself as your hero

When you start accepting the way you are, the world recognizes you, “When you can’t find your hero, you become one”. Pretend yourself as moon during your hard times, it degrades but it always grows again. Sometimes someone’s absence will make you a better person, cherish their absence, it is a blessing in disguise. Life is a mirror, it gives you back what you give. When you give love it gives back love, when you give affection it gives back affection. Never give a place for hatred or betrayal they could be highly dangerous. There is always a simple principle to be happy “never take victories to your head and defeats to your heart”.

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Saravanan Pari

Civil engineer, Nature lover, Being human, Photographer, Content writer, Sports person, Fitness addict, Food lover